Backend Phase A: foundation, migrations, Docker setup

- Go backend skeleton: config (caarlos0/env), slog JSON logging,
  pgxpool store, HTTP server with graceful shutdown.
- httpapi: render helpers, Problem errors, middleware chain
  (requestID / logging / recover / CORS), /healthz and /readyz.
- Migrations: full initial schema (users, sessions, lists,
  list_members, items, op_log SOURCE OF TRUTH, item_names) +
  golang-migrate runner binary using source/iofs (embedded).
- Docker: multi-stage Dockerfile (Go 1.26 -> distroless nonroot),
  builds both server and migrate binaries.
- deploy: docker-compose (caddy + backend + migrate + postgres:16),
  Caddyfile (auto-HTTPS), .env.example, pg extensions init script.
- AGENTS.md: project context + roadmap for AI agents.

Verified: image builds, both binaries run in container (smoke test).

deploy/db/init/001_extensions.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+-- Runs only on first DB init (docker-entrypoint-initdb.d).
+-- Extensions used by the application.
+CREATE EXTENSION IF NOT EXISTS pgcrypto;   -- gen_random_uuid()
+CREATE EXTENSION IF NOT EXISTS pg_trgm;    -- trigram fuzzy search for autocomplete