Backend Phase A: foundation, migrations, Docker setup

- Go backend skeleton: config (caarlos0/env), slog JSON logging,
  pgxpool store, HTTP server with graceful shutdown.
- httpapi: render helpers, Problem errors, middleware chain
  (requestID / logging / recover / CORS), /healthz and /readyz.
- Migrations: full initial schema (users, sessions, lists,
  list_members, items, op_log SOURCE OF TRUTH, item_names) +
  golang-migrate runner binary using source/iofs (embedded).
- Docker: multi-stage Dockerfile (Go 1.26 -> distroless nonroot),
  builds both server and migrate binaries.
- deploy: docker-compose (caddy + backend + migrate + postgres:16),
  Caddyfile (auto-HTTPS), .env.example, pg extensions init script.
- AGENTS.md: project context + roadmap for AI agents.

Verified: image builds, both binaries run in container (smoke test).

backend/.dockerignore

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+# Build artifacts
+bin/
+*.exe
+*.test
+*.out
+
+# IDE / OS
+.idea/
+.vscode/
+.DS_Store
+Thumbs.db
+
+# Git
+.git
+.gitignore
+
+# Docker
+Dockerfile
+.dockerignore
+
+# Docs
+*.md